Within the Stillness, the Body Whispers

Fall has always spoken to me; a season of letting go, slowing down, and turning inward. Lately, I’ve been in my own season of learning and relearning how to truly listen to my body, to follow where it leads, and to honor what it needs. That exploration inspired the theme of my first Red Thread Circle, which I was thrilled to facilitate during my Color of Woman Intentional Creativity Teacher Training.

There’s a particular moment in autumn when you can feel the shift not just in the air, but in your bones. The light slants differently. The world exhales. And if you're paying attention, you might notice your body doing the same.

We talk a lot about "listening to your body" in wellness circles. It's become almost cliché, repeated so often it risks losing its meaning. But there's a crucial second step we often neglect: following what we hear. Fall teaches us both.

As the trees begin their magnificent release, dropping leaves that no longer serve them, nature offers us a masterclass in paying attention. The shorter days aren't a punishment, they're an invitation. Your body knows this instinctively. You might notice you're craving heavier foods, warmer drinks, earlier bedtimes. Your energy naturally turns inward. That restless summer momentum begins to settle into something slower, deeper, more contemplative. This isn't laziness or seasonal depression (though those are real and deserve attention). Often, it's simply your body speaking its seasonal language.

But listening is the easy part. We're generally pretty good at hearing the whispers: the fatigue, the craving for solitude, the need for more rest. We nod knowingly, maybe journal about it, and then... we override it completely.

Following your body's guidance requires something more difficult than awareness, it requires trust. And in a culture that glorifies productivity, constant availability, and pushing through, following your body's wisdom can feel almost rebellious.

Your body says rest, and your calendar says no. Your body craves quiet, and your obligations demand noise. Your body signals it's time to release something; a relationship, a habit, a version of yourself and fear whispers, "not yet."

Sometimes honoring your body’s whispers means not being able to do something you said you would, or setting a boundary that others might not understand. That can stir up guilt but part of learning to trust your body is learning to let go of that guilt too. Rest, recalibration, and boundaries are not signs of weakness. They are the body’s way of leading you back to balance.

Fall asks: what if you listened and acted?

There's nothing passive about turning inward. It's not retreat or withdrawal. It's return. A return to the sacred self that lives beneath the performance, beneath the productivity, beneath all the ways we've learned to be palatable to the world.

Just as trees draw their energy down into their roots during autumn, we too can practice this seasonal pulling back. This might look like:

• Saying no to commitments that deplete rather than nourish

• Creating actual space for rest, not just squeezing it in between tasks

• Allowing yourself to be less available, less "on"

• Sitting with uncomfortable feelings instead of scrolling past them

• Nourishing yourself with warmth in food, in environment, in relationships

  
  

This inward turn isn't selfish. It's necessary. You cannot give from an empty well, and pretending the well is full doesn't make it so.

When we actually follow our body's guidance and turn inward, we discover something remarkable: there's wisdom waiting there. Ancient, instinctual knowing that our busy, bright, overstimulated lives often drown out. Your body knows when it's time to let go. It knows what nourishes and what depletes. It knows the difference between the productive discomfort of growth and the destructive discomfort of self-betrayal. But you have to get quiet enough to hear it, and brave enough to believe it.

Fall doesn't apologize for the falling leaves, the earlier darkness, the slowing down. It doesn't rush toward spring or cling to summer. It trusts its own timing, its own rhythms, its own necessary seasons.

Tending to your sacred self isn't a luxury reserved for spa days and vacations. It's the daily practice of treating yourself as someone worth caring for—someone whose needs matter. It's checking in: How do I actually feel? What do I actually need? What am I carrying that isn't mine to carry?

Here's the revolutionary part actually honoring what you discover.

As autumn deepens, consider this your permission slip. You don't need to maintain summer's pace. You don't need to override your body's wisdom with willpower. You don't need to wait until you're completely depleted to finally rest.

Listen to your body. And then, courageously, follow where it leads you.

Let go of what needs releasing. Turn inward without guilt. Tend to your sacred self with the same devotion you give to everything and everyone else.

The trees are showing us how. They release without resistance, draw energy inward without apology, and trust that spring will come again not despite the winter, but because of it.

Your body knows its seasons too.

Maybe it's time YOU finally trusted it.