Finding Your Safe Space: The Power of Soul-Nourishing Connections

Feb 17

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A group of women embrace in a blooming garden, symbolizing unity and the nurturing power of supportive connections.

I recently came across a quote on Facebook that resonated deeply with me:

"Choose people who feel like home, who let your nervous system breathe, who see you, who make you feel most you, who leave you feeling warm and cozy inside, who care, who see you as enough, who love the way you grow."

Reading those words made me reflect on how profoundly the people we surround ourselves with impact our well-being—not just emotionally, but physically too. For many, myself included, anxiety can make your nervous system feel like it's in overdrive, always on high alert. But the right people—the ones who truly see you—can be a soothing balm for that inner turmoil, offering a space where you can simply be without fear or pretense.

The Struggle to Choose the Right People

Yet, choosing these people isn't always easy. Sometimes we cling to relationships that feel familiar, even when they drain us or hurt us. We convince ourselves that comfort is the same as safety, even when it leaves us feeling small. We tell ourselves that we have to endure, that we have to fit in, that being seen fully is a privilege rather than a right. But that’s not true.

We deserve to be surrounded by people who celebrate our existence rather than merely tolerate it. It can be hard to let go of connections that once meant something to us, but if they no longer bring light into our lives, we must be brave enough to walk away. The space we clear by letting go of relationships that deplete us makes room for the people who will truly honor and uplift us.

When I think about the people who truly see me, they are the ones who embrace my messy, ever-growing, imperfect self and still make me feel like I am enough. They are the ones who listen without judgment, who remind me of my strength when I forget, who encourage my growth without making me feel inadequate. These are the relationships I hold close. And on the other side, being around those who diminish or criticize us only amplifies our anxiety, making us feel even more disconnected from ourselves.

Creating a Safe Space

This is why spaces of unconditional love and support are so vital. This is why I offer Healing Circles—a sanctuary where you can exhale, let your guard down, and be fully seen. A place where your nervous system can finally breathe, and you can connect with kindred spirits who uplift and nurture your soul.

Healing Circles are more than just gatherings—they are intentional spaces where we come together to share, heal, and grow. They remind us that we are not alone in our struggles and that vulnerability is not a weakness but a gateway to deeper connection. In these circles, we honor each other’s journeys, hold space for one another’s pain, and celebrate each other’s victories, big or small.

A Gentle Reminder

So, here’s a gentle reminder for you today:

✅ Surround yourself with people who feel like a warm hug for your soul.

✅ Release the relationships that amplify your anxiety instead of soothing it.

✅ Find those who accept you even in your messiest moments.

✅ Trust that the right people will see you, even when you feel unseen.

✅ Remember that you deserve to take up space exactly as you are.

We all deserve to feel safe, seen, and loved in our connections. And if you’re still searching for those kinds of people, know that the journey often starts with becoming your own safe space first. When you treat yourself with the kindness, love, and acceptance you seek from others, you will naturally attract those who align with your energy.

You are worthy of relationships that nourish you. You are worthy of peace. You are worthy of love, exactly as you are. And if you ever need a space to feel held and supported, know that Bella Rose Healing Hands Healing Circles is here for you.